mojomojo

i had a conversation.. been asked about this career, if i am not bonded, would i still choose this? the fellow-future schoolmate (insyaAllah, i hope she gets in IF thats what she wants, and if thats the best for her), she was in that fine line of doubting her choice, herself.. she foresaw that it'd be tough..

i explained in lengthy pages (of sms), talked about it from MY angle, assuming, thinking that it was the reason why she asked.. thinking that her "toughness" is my way of seeing "toughness"..

but i found out she was having a different "fear", a different struggle.. its about the academic-ish performance.. an area that will demand a lot, an area that i know will be very challenging but i... somehow.. am not having the slightest worry in that area - maybe im too occupied with worrying physical performance.. or maybe i have some kind of confidence in it.. or maybe im carelessly overlooking that area..

in some ways, the toughness is general lah, smua urg pun kepayahan the same areas, except the toughest one of all the tough areas would be different for each person..

it hit me: each person in this world has a different struggle, what seems easy to us might be difficult for others..

so, be kind.. dont judge easily.. and help each other out :)