have.. a little faith

when someone say "i have faith in you" or "ko bleh tu eh", three things could happen:

1. you feel.. honoured, touched. makes you believe in yourself too.
2. sakit ati. its like, u dont know what im going thru, u dont know my inner struggle. u dont know my weaknesses, why say that?
3. you.. hold on to their words. and that what motivates you.. because someone said you can..

(difference btwn number 1 and 3: number 1, u kind of believe in yourself too, a bit. number 3, u didnt believe in u, at all)

or generally, its a mixture of these things..

but its funny how we can still have negative feelings when someone says they have faith in you, because i do that too. i see certain someone and i just know, i know they can do things. i see it. i believe the potential they have, the potential they might not even realise.. and i would go in circle, wondering "what are they worrying for?" i mean, i think theyre good... i know they are.

so maybe, the next time you hear someone says that to you, theyre not saying it out of nothing.. maybe they say it because they see what u see in that someone you say "i have faith in you"

maybe its just our head that is messing with us.

but "i have faith in you" is more effective if that someone who is saying that to you knows your weaknesses too. hehe. klw ia prnah liat strength tni saja pun, still.. that is saying something. meaning, that little strength that they have seen is enough to overcome our weaknesses..

dont lie, dont say that to someone just to make them feel better unless you know they would hold on to that and... make them go thru whatever it is to go thru.. i wouldnt want people to lie to me.. unless u can  see that i will be holding on to your words and go thru whatever it is that i have to go thru.. (so please, make it believeable okay? haha)

jan plg klw misalnya urg ani tarang2 sudah confirm dapat markah 48 (fail) and u kept on saying jua yg bnrnya 48 atu inda lurus "salah kali cigumu atu" instead say things like "i know u can do better than that! next time, you will get 50 psal sekian2" -give reasons why, or whatever comparison that make them believe what u said.. faith, hopes.. can mean everything to someone..

its like whenever we feel weak, we would go back to the day those people say "i know you can do it" and we would wonder why theyre saying that. that means people see something in us, and we havent been using that "something" well enough..

point of the story is, if someone say you can do it, its because they know you can do it. simple. and true. hehehe