emm..

been reading not so good gossips. haha. cematu tah hiburanku sejak2 PG ani.. kasian. im a single girl. alone. maybe lonely sometimes. hahah.

what i see is that.. people sometimes try to convince themselves, defend themselves that its okay to be sinned PASAL: inda semestinya urg yg baik atu masuk syurga, urg yg jahat atu masuk neraka. true that. atu iradah, qudrah Allah. dosa, pahala, syurga, neraka milik Allah, kehendak Allah. niat tani, yg tersurat, yg tersirat Allah th yg tau.

to me, statement ani should appy to things yg mcm "jgn ria dlm beribadah. jgn menunjuk2", "dont judge others, jgn kn pndai2 mnghukum urg lain with what we see", "pendorong utk urg yg sedang 'lalai' utk berubah" and its a reflection betapa Allah atu maha pengampun, berkuasa and mengetahui - among other many many things.

But the bad news is that, kdg urg pakai hujah atu utk mndefend dirinya "its okay fr me to be like this, dont judge me - inda semestinya org jahat (in that sense, that person sendiri yakni 'AKU') masuk neraka. ada jua hadis psal urg jahat masuk syurga, urg baik masuk neraka" sigh, true that. tapi bukannya it is suggestive that it applies to every sin or every kebaikan. klw bnar th ah u feel that way, just dont defend urselves like that - it makes u look guilty and defensive. diam2 sja, tanamkan dlm ati diri atu kn brubah. sadarkan diri yg tani salah. inda pyah menjaja arah urg benda yg tani sendiri kurang ilmu. at its best, jadikan smua hadis atau statement atu sbagai pendorong utk ke arah kebaikan - bukan kan jadikan sbagai panduan kn meneruskan kejahatan..